According to Wikipedia, “In human sexuality, kinkiness is the use of non-conventional sexual practices, concepts or fantasies. The term derives from the idea of a “bend” (cf. a “kink”) in one’s sexual behaviour, to contrast such behaviour with “straight” or “vanilla” sexual mores and proclivities”

According to me, kink is anything of a sexual nature that goes against the social conformity that any individual was brought up with.

Most of us have been brought up knowing deep deep down in our hearts that it is wrong to hit a woman… What do you do though, when shes asks you to do it and she really REALLY enjoys it?

This of course is just one example of literally hundreds, if not thousands. If you want to explore this lifestyle, or just want to learn more, I break it down into 2 categories, BDSM, and Leather. 

They overlap in many ways, as you will see, and in communities like mine the line is so blurred it can hardly be seen.